Thursday, December 18, 2008

No hugging is bugging me!!


Isnt it sad when you realise you have no one to hug?? Even when are you are feeling low ...or not feeling well physically?

I think its been one whole month (or more) since i have had any human contact in these terms. And this realisation doesnt make me feel any better.... or maybe when you are sick, you tend to make these sad discoveries.

I mean, really .... isnt this some kind of an indication that you are spending this precious part of your life without acually enjoying the true rewards that it has to offer! Or does this just mean that you are in a wrong place, at a wrong time?

I dont know...
...What i do know is that i need someone to hug, as of now...
.... but i have no one, as of now!

17 comments:

I Walk Alone!!! said...

loads of virtual hugs from a friend... hope that makes you feel better... cheer up... so are you still going to kill me? ;)

smile girl... life is really beautiful to waste being low... ok ok i know i too have my share of lows in life being alone here... but for now... please cheer up... smile please... please... :(

Paradox Philic said...

@ I walk alone - Appreciate the concern. Really do... Thanks :)

Its just that i have been sick for the past three days...
Sitting alone in my house, i think i fell prey to the temptation of being sad!

I know this shall pass too... but till then let me feel this. Please..
So that when i do live the moment which is the exact opposite of this (when i have someone to hug), I dont take it for granted.

Makes sense?? If not then i would like to blame it on my not being well :D

Che said...

Get well soon. Get hugs soon.

rhapsodicobjectivity said...

True.. it does make sense...

Also I believe sometimes its difficult to come out of the comforts of being sad... hence the temptation... :D

Stupidosaur said...

//I think its been one whole month (or more) since i have had any human contact in these terms.

Wow! I didn't know ppl get hugged that often.

I've been only hugged twice in my life. By teachers. And I was a school kid then. So its easily 10-15 yrs since :P

Get well soon! (I will not hug ou right now. I have cold and cough. You might catch it. I might catch whatever you are sick with)

Here's a deferred virtual hug X

Daanish said...

Feel:anxious !
Try:using the anxiety!
Feel:I just did it!I didn't block!I used the anxiety and moved ahead!
Oh my God,I am excited !

Hugs and Kiss (offcourse on cheek)

:)

Sane Insane said...

Hmmmmmm Hmmmmmmmmmmmm Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Buy a life size Teddy Bear :D

I Walk Alone!!! said...

you did make sense... probably i am also sick like you are ;)

Paradox Philic said...

@ Che - Thanks dear. I am better now ..i mean physically.

@ rhapsodicobjectivity - I agree :)

Paradox Philic said...

@ Stupidosaur - Well i think females are more expressive this way, hence get to experience the hugs more often ...and for the same reason miss them more often too.

And yes, i would take that hug anytime ...cold/cough or not, i dont care :)

Paradox Philic said...

@ Daanish - I do that too... use the not-blocking mechanism... :)

@ Sane Insane - I dont think that will work... i am not into one-way interaction even if its about hugging a lifesize teddy bear in lonely times like this...plus i think teddybears (lifesize or otherwise) are seriously overrated!!.... So naaah no teddy bear for me.

@ I walk alone - hehehehe your comment makes me sound like a sicko rather than a physically unwell person ...the fact that you are referring yourself in the same way does provide some respite :P

I Walk Alone!!! said...

Good that you atleast now have a smile :P on your face... Liked it :)

Parul said...

Awww deary u want a hug come I’ll give u one. Do u need one face to face, or Brokeback (ha!) Mountain style.

mirrorcracked said...

One huge, warm bear hug to you, from Bangalore! :)
cheer up! :)

Zubin said...

buy a teddy..!! :p
oh but you are too grown-up to do that.. :d

...hmm...you just came back from India..must be missing you home..thats why you are feeling like that..get well jaldi se..and as che has said..start hugging soon..just hug anybody..and everybody... :)

we want to see you on T.V

with headlines..
"Crazy woman hugging people on roads"
:p :d

Paradox Philic said...

@ I walk alone - I have you all to thank for that :)

@ Parul - Wahan aa pati to dikkat hi kya thee, meri jaan?

@ Mirrorcracked - Thanks .. heres one from me to you >:D<

@ Zubin - Lol @ crazy woman hugging (random?) people on roads...
by the way, how come you are so late this time??

Zubin said...

yes random..!!

ermm...sorry for being late... :)..
am usually in a hurry whenever I am online these days..will come back to normal soon though..!! :)